Min/Max Kernels Should Use Total Ordering

[tustvold]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

We have gradually converged on using total ordering everywhere, as opposed to special casing NaN for floating point numbers. It would appear that the min and max kernels have not yet been updated.

Describe the solution you'd like

We should update the min and max kernels to use total ordering.

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

apache/datafusion#8031 is an upstream report of this issue

#5032 may be related to making the aggregate kernels use total ordering

[tustvold]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'arrow'} from #5100