ATDM: Replace Trilinos_ASSERT_MISSING_PACKAGES with Trilinos_ASSERT_DEFINED_DEPENDENCIES (trilinos#11429)

I set the value of Trilinos_ASSERT_DEFINED_DEPENDENCIES=SEND_ERROR so that if
any Trilinos package (including from add-on repos like Drekar) lists undefined
TPLs, then they will see all of the errors instead of just aborting on the
first error.  (That makes the process to fix all of the errors go faster.)

Author: bartlettroscoe

cmake/std/atdm/ATDMDevEnvSettings.cmake

@@ -290,7 +290,7 @@ ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ENABLE_EXPLICIT_INSTANTIATION ON CACHE BOOL)
 #ATDM_SET_CACHE(HDF5_NO_SYSTEM_PATHS ${ATDM_HDF5_NO_SYSTEM_PATHS} CACHE BOOL)
 ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ENABLE_INSTALL_CMAKE_CONFIG_FILES ON CACHE BOOL)
 ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ENABLE_DEVELOPMENT_MODE OFF CACHE BOOL)
-ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ASSERT_MISSING_PACKAGES ON CACHE BOOL)
+ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ASSERT_DEFINED_DEPENDENCIES SEND_ERROR CACHE BOOL)
 ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_LINK_SEARCH_START_STATIC "${ATDM_Trilinos_LINK_SEARCH_START_STATIC}" CACHE BOOL)
 ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ENABLE_OpenMP "${ATDM_USE_OPENMP}" CACHE BOOL)
 ATDM_SET_CACHE(Trilinos_ENABLE_COMPLEX "${ATDM_COMPLEX}" CACHE BOOL)