Add checks for Spark Connect compatibility

[alexott]

In the current version of Spark Connect, the Spark Connect implementations of the Column and DataFrame classes aren't inherited from the corresponding classes, so the following checks will fail:

from pyspark.sql import DataFrame, Column

if isinstance(cl, Column):
  ...

if isinstance(df, DataFrame):
  ....

Making it harder to port code to UC Shared clusters and serverless notebooks/workflows...

[nfx]

@alexott can you also implement it in UCX first? https://github.com/databrickslabs/ucx/blob/main/src/databricks/labs/ucx/source_code/pyspark.py