Client connection refused by default when running on Node 22

[n2k3]

Describe the bug
After upgrading from node 20 to node v22.12.0 (LTS), running my project locally this error occurred:

A client connection error occurred; reconnecting because of "waitUntilAvailable=30000". ClientConnectionClosedError: network error: Error: connect ECONNREFUSED ::1:10705
    at <unknown> (ClientConnectionClosedError: network error: Error: connect ECONNREFUSED ::1:10705) {
  [cause]: Error: connect ECONNREFUSED ::1:10705
      at <unknown> (Error: connect ECONNREFUSED ::1:10705) {
    errno: -4078,
    code: 'ECONNREFUSED',
    syscall: 'connect',
    address: '::1',
    port: 10705
  }
}

This happens when trying to sign in via emailPasswordSignIn server action (using @edgedb/auth-nextjs 0.4.0-canary.20241211T200202)
But I can connect to my instance REPL, and run the command edgedb ui and browse the database, that all works.

Reproduction
How I create my client & auth:

// edgedb.ts
import createAuth from "@edgedb/auth-nextjs/app";
import { createClient } from "edgedb";

export const client = createClient({
  tlsSecurity: process.env.NODE_ENV === "development" ? "insecure" : "default",
});

export const auth = createAuth(client, {
  "https://localhost:3000",
  passwordResetPath: "/reset-password",
});

Code that produces the error:

// auth.ts (auth related server actions)
import { auth } from "@/edgedb";

const { emailPasswordSignIn } = auth.createServerActions();

export const signInAction = async (formData: FormData) => {
  const tokenData = await emailPasswordSignIn(formData);
  //                ^-- bug occurs happens here when this function is called
}

Expected behavior
I expect the client to connect properly and be able to use the auth extention.

Versions
OS: Windows 11 Pro 23H2 build 22631.4602 with WSL2 on Ubuntu 22.04.3 LTS
EdgeDB server: 5.7+a084c4f (also occurs on 5.6+51fd5fe before upgrading)
EdgeDB CLI: 6.0.2+275a1ad
edgedb-js: 0.4.0-canary.20241211T200202 (also occurs on 0.3.2)
Node: 22.12.0 (20.18.1 works)

Additional context

• Workaround:
  running edgedb configure set listen_addresses 127.0.0.1 ::1 via the cli (source docs)
  results in:

  select cfg::DatabaseConfig.listen_addresses;
  { '::1', '127.0.0.1' }
  

• Possibly related issues:
  error generating query builder #413 (related to just generating code via edgedb-js?)
  can't bind new ip on wsl edgedb edgedb#3932 (old? can probably be closed)
  Deno Fresh ConnectionRefused edgedb-examples#94 (related to deno)
  Deno + EdgeDB solution issue #376 (another one related to deno)
• Possibly already defaults to ::1 ?
  Listen on IPv6 by default too edgedb-cli#798