upgrade golangci-lint and investigate lost new-from-rev flag

[AskAlexSharov]

task to study how linter run, and rules in .golangci.yml
to take a look which linters are enabled/disabled, which todo are left there
why in Makefile we have #//--new-from-rev=$(MASTER_COMMIT) ./... - why not enable it (probably human-mistake. we want to lint code which changed by PR - even if PR has many commits. in my head it's "what changed from master")
remove lintci:

[AskAlexSharov]

upgraded by #13048