Update OpenMDAO wrapper for stability derivatives

• added the option to output stability or control surface derivatives from the OpenMDAO wrapper.

Updated optimization wrapper and added control surf derivs

• Added adjoint based control surface derivatives
• updated the OpenMDAO wrapper
• updated optimization example script

Added support for apple silicon

• Reduced the maximum number of grid points from 6000 to 5550 due to a quirk in clang
• Added Cirrus CI to build and deploy macos-arm64 images

Added stability derivatives API

• Added ability to get stability derivatives from pyAVL without calling general sensitivity functions.

More output, derivatives, better builds, and initial docs

Added more outputs

• hinge moments
• geometry writing

Derivatives

• added a residual routine and new solve subroutine for a single alpha and beta
• forward and reverse AD partials of analysis routines through ta penade
• Total adjoint derivatives

Better builds

• Made meson and setup.py build methods consistent.
• fixed multiple AVLSolver issues by updating MExt to move dynamic libraries

Initial docs

• added MKDocs framework for documentation

Meson build system and CD/CI

A completely new build system was added, Meson, to support packaging and shipping pyAVL through PYPI.
On PYPI pyAVL now ships with OpenBlas for faster analysis. Scipy was used as a reference for this work.