Change wheel python version to be a version that has tests run on it

Currently - project is testing on min and latest python versions (3.10, and 3.13)
The wheel released to pypi - is built using 3.11
I think the wheel should be built instead using a python version we are running tests for in ci

Further - lint.yml is using 3.12 - creating pr now to bump these to 3.13 for consistency through the project
