Cannot set/control headphones with amixer to set them as default

[jurosic]

Audio only outputs trough HDMI. I tried:
amixer cset 3 1
But i get:
amixer: Cannot find the given element from control default
amixer contents only outputs HDMI control Switch and HDMI control Audio, and when i do amixer -c 1 it outputs Headphone control Switch and Headphone control Audio
And i tried setting the mixer to Headphone in config.ini of bt-speaker at which point Bluetooth stopped working entirely. It went back after i left mixer= .
The only way i managed to get it to work on jack was that i unplugged HDMI at boot. I have no idea and have tried everything.
And i don't have PulseAudio installed
Thanks!