Scikit-build 0.16.4

[henryiii]

This releases backports additions for Windows ARM cross-compiling via cibuildwheel from scikit-build-core 0.1.4.

• Initial experimental support for Windows ARM cross-compile in fix: Windows ARM cross-compile #824 and fix: adjustmetns for native ARM support for Windows #818
• Replace mailing list with GitHub Discussions board in docs: Replace mailing list with GitHub Discussions board #823
• Some CI updates in ci: avoid 3.6 removal in ubuntu-22.04 #811 and ci: fix pass job #812

Full Changelog: 0.16.3...0.16.4

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