Change set_state comparison method

[Archmonger]

Current Situation

Currently ReactPy using a function called strictly_equals to determine if set_state is setting itself to a duplicate value.

This sometimes relies on python's is keyword to check identity.

Proposed Actions

Using is to check equality in Python doesn't exactly behave the same as the javascript equivalent (Object.is). The current set_state design is effectively if the old/new memory references are the same, which doesn't equate to whether their values are the same. This is honestly a bit annoying, and results in a re-renders in a lot re-renders in scenarios were it was completely unneeded.

Python's __eq__ method is far more similar to JavaScript than Python's is. So realistically, we should be attempting to do an __eq__ check whenever possible.

if type(new) != type(old):
   return False

if hasattr(new, "__eq__") and hasattr(old, "__eq__"):
    return new == old

return new is old