A woman benefits from a kind, tender partner who cares for her and a strong, decisive protector who can defend her. If you can do both - if you are a 'tender defender' - you become the whole package.
Tender defender dos and don'ts:
DO BE: empathetic DON'T BE: narcissistic
DO BE: assertive DON'T BE: wimpy
DO BE: protective DON'T BE: psychopathic
DO BE: generous leader DON'T BE: machiavellian
DO BE: altruistic DON'T BE: selfish
DO BE: confident and decisive DON'T BE: submissive or passive
DO BE: ready for anything DON'T BE: completely oblivious or totally anxious
If you can do all these things, you will be on your way to becoming what women want