Update dependencies to latest versions

[chitralverma]

Describe your feature request

A lot of required and optional dependencies that are mentioned in connector-x's Cargo.toml are due for an update. Listing down some of the important ones,

• Arrow
• Datafusion
• Polars
• sqlparser

[chitralverma]

@wangxiaoying if this makes sense to you, I can raise a PR for this?

[houqp]

@chitralverma yes, I have sent updates for datafusion and arrow to connectorx before :)

[wangxiaoying]

Hi @chitralverma , thanks for opening this issue and summarizing it. Sure please feel free to open a PR. Just a reminder that other than connectorx, you may also want to sync the dependencies in connectorx-python as well as connectorx-cpp.

[gruuya]

If #518 is adequate, can we also have a new release? Even an alpha release will do, since we want to be able to publish the datafusion-remote-tables crate. For some background see splitgraph/seafowl#456.