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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">WITH few exceptions, our book thus far has spoken of men. But what we have said applies quite as much to women. Our activities in behalf of women who drink are on the increase. There is every evidence that women regain their health as readily as men if they try our suggestions.
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">FOR every alcoholic who drinks others are involved—the partner who trembles in fear of the next debauch; the parents who see their child wasting away.
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> But for every man who drinks others are involved—the wife who trembles in fear of the next debauch; the mother and father who see their son wasting away.
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> Among us are partners, relatives and friends whose problem has been solved, as well as some who have not yet found a happy solution. We want the partners of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the partners of people who drink too much. What they say will apply to nearly everyone bound by ties of blood or affection to an alcoholic.
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> Among us are wives, relatives and friends whose problem has been solved, as well as some who have not yet found a happy solution. We want the wives of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the wives of men who drink too much. What they say will apply to nearly everyone bound by ties of blood or affection to an alcoholic.
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> As <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">wiv</span>es of Alcoholics Anonymous, we would like you to feel that we understand as perhaps few can. We want to analyze mistakes we have made. We want to leave you with the feeling that no situation is too difficult and no unhappiness too great to be overcome.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> As <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partn</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span>s of Alcoholics Anonymous, we would like you to feel that we understand as perhaps few can. We want to analyze mistakes we have made. We want to leave you with the feeling that no situation is too difficult and no unhappiness too great to be overcome.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">\* <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Written in 1939, when there were few women in A.A., t</span>his chapter assumes that the alcoholic in the home is likely to be the husband. But many of the suggestions given here may be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic—whether she is still drinking or is recovering in A.A. A further source of help is noted on page 121.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our loyalty and the desire that our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">bands</span> hold up their heads and be like other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> have begotten all sorts of predicaments. We have been unselfish and self-sacrificing. We have told innumerable lies to protect our pride and our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>s’ reputations. We have prayed, we have begged, we have been patient. We have struck out viciously. We have run away. We have been hysterical. We have been terror stricken. We have sought sympathy. We have had retaliatory love affairs with other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span>.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our loyalty and the desire that our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partner</span>s hold up their heads and be like other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ople</span> have begotten all sorts of predicaments. We have been unselfish and self-sacrificing. We have told innumerable lies to protect our pride and our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span>s’ reputations. We have prayed, we have begged, we have been patient. We have struck out viciously. We have run away. We have been hysterical. We have been terror stricken. We have sought sympathy. We have had retaliatory love affairs with other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ople</span>.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our homes have been battle-grounds many an evening. In the morning we have kissed and made up. Our friends have counseled chucking the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> and we have done so with finality, only to be back in a little while hoping, always hoping. Our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> have sworn great solemn oaths that they were through drinking forever. We have believed them when no one else could or would. Then, in days, weeks, or months, a fresh outburst.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our homes have been battle-grounds many an evening. In the morning we have kissed and made up. Our friends have counseled chucking the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partn</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rs</span> and we have done so with finality, only to be back in a little while hoping, always hoping. Our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partn</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rs</span> have sworn great solemn oaths that they were through drinking forever. We have believed them when no one else could or would. Then, in days, weeks, or months, a fresh outburst.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> We seldom had friends at our homes, never knowing how or when the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">men</span> of the house would appear. We could make few social engagements. We came to live almost alone. When we were invited out, our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">bands</span> sneaked so many drinks that they spoiled the occasion. If, on the other hand, they took nothing, their self-pity made them killjoys.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The bill collectors, the sheriffs, the angry taxi drivers, the police<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span>, the bums, the pals, and even the la<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>s they sometimes brought home—our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">bands</span> thought we were so inhospitable. “Joykiller, nag, wet blanket”—that’s what they said. Next day they would be themselves again and we would forgive and try to forget.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The bill collectors, the sheriffs, the angry taxi drivers, the police<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> offic</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rs</span>, the bums, the pals, and even the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">potentia</span>l<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> </span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ffa</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span>s they sometimes brought home—our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partner</span>s thought we were so inhospitable. “Joykiller, nag, wet blanket”—that’s what they said. Next day they would be themselves again and we would forgive and try to forget.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> We have tried to hold the love of our children for their <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">f</span>at<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">her</span>. We have told small tots that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">f</span>at<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">her</span> was sick, which was much nearer the truth than we realized. They struck the children, kicked out door panels, smashed treasured crockery, and ripped the keys out of pianos. In the midst of such pandemonium they may have rushed out threatening to live with the other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">w</span>o<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">man</span> forever. In desperation, we have even got tight ourselves—the drunk to end all drunks. The unexpected result was that our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">bands</span> seemed to like it.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> We have tried to hold the love of our children for their a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">lcoholic paren</span>t. We have told small tots that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ren</span>t was sick, which was much nearer the truth than we realized. They struck the children, kicked out door panels, smashed treasured crockery, and ripped the keys out of pianos. In the midst of such pandemonium they may have rushed out threatening to live with the other <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">l</span>o<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ver</span> forever. In desperation, we have even got tight ourselves—the drunk to end all drunks. The unexpected result was that our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partner</span>s seemed to like it.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Perhaps at this point we got a divorce and took the children home to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">f</span>at<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">her and mother</span>. Then we were severely criticized by our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>’s parents for desertion. Usually we did not leave. We stayed on and on. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">W</span>e finally sought employment ourselves as destitution faced us and our families.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Perhaps at this point we got a divorce and took the children home to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">our p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ren</span>t<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span>. Then we were severely criticized by our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span>’s parents for desertion. Usually we did not leave. We stayed on and on. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">If w</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> were stay-at-home care-givers, we may have</span> finally sought employment ourselves as destitution faced us and our families.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">these things terrified and distracted us. As animals on a treadmill, we have patiently and wearily climbed, falling back in exhaustion after each futile effort to reach solid ground. Most of us have entered the final stage with its commitment to health resorts, sanitariums, hospitals, and jails. Sometimes there were screaming delirium and insanity. Death was often near.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">these things terrified and distracted us. As animals on a treadmill, we have patiently and wearily climbed, falling back in exhaustion after each futile effort to reach solid ground. Most of us have entered the final stage with its commitment to health resorts, sanitariums, hospitals, and jails. Sometimes there were screaming delirium and insanity. Death was often near.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Under these conditions we naturally made mistakes. Some of them rose out of ignorance of alcoholism. Sometimes we sensed dimly that we were dealing with sick <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>en. Had we fully understood the nature of the alcoholic illness, we might have behaved differently.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> How could <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> who loved their <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">wiv</span>es and children be so unthinking, so callous, so cruel? There could be no love in such persons, we thought. And just as we were being convinced of their heartlessness, they would surprise us with fresh resolves and new attentions. For a while they would be their old sweet selves, only to dash the new structure of affection to pieces once more. Asked why they commenced to drink again, they would reply with some silly excuse, or none. It was so baffling, so heartbreaking. Could we have been so mistaken in the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n w</span>e <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">marri</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>? When drinking, they were strangers. Sometimes they were so inaccessible that it seemed as though a great wall had been built around them.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> How could <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ople</span> who loved their <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partn</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span>s and children be so unthinking, so callous, so cruel? There could be no love in such persons, we thought. And just as we were being convinced of their heartlessness, they would surprise us with fresh resolves and new attentions. For a while they would be their old sweet selves, only to dash the new structure of affection to pieces once more. Asked why they commenced to drink again, they would reply with some silly excuse, or none. It was so baffling, so heartbreaking. Could we have been so mistaken in the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">on</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s chos</span>e <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">to lov</span>e? When drinking, they were strangers. Sometimes they were so inaccessible that it seemed as though a great wall had been built around them.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> These are some of the questions which race through the mind of every <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">w</span>o<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ma</span>n who has an alcoholic <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>. We hope this book has answered some of them. Perhaps your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> has been living in that strange world of alcoholism where everything is distorted and exaggerated. You can see that he really do<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">es</span> love you with hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> better self. Of course, there is such a thing as incompatibility, but in nearly every instance the alcoholic only seems to be unloving and inconsiderate; it is usually because he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> warped and sickened that he say<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> and do<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">es</span> these appalling things. Today most of our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> are better <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">b</span>ands<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> and fathers</span> than ever before.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> These are some of the questions which race through the mind of every <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">pers</span>on who has an alcoholic <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span>. We hope this book has answered some of them. Perhaps your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> has been living in that strange world of alcoholism where everything is distorted and exaggerated. You can see that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> really do love you with <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> better self. Of course, there is such a thing as incompatibility, but in nearly every instance the alcoholic only seems to be unloving and inconsiderate; it is usually because <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> warped and sickened that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> say and do these appalling things. Today most of our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">significant oth</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rs</span> are better <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partner</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> </span>and<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> parent</span>s than ever before.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Try not to condemn your alcoholic <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> no matter what he say<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> or doe<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s. H</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> just another very sick, unreasonable person. Treat h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m, when you can, as though he ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> pneumonia. When he anger<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> you, remember that he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> very ill.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Try not to condemn your alcoholic <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> no matter what <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> say or do<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">. Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y ar</span>e just another very sick, unreasonable person. Treat <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m, when you can, as though <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> pneumonia. When <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> anger you, remember that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> very ill.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> There is an important exception to the foregoing. We realize some <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">men</span> are thoroughly bad-intentioned, that no amount of patience will make any difference. An alcoholic of this temperament may be quick to use this chapter as a club over your head. Don’t let h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m get away with it. If you are positive he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> one of this type you may feel you had better leave. Is it right to let h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m ruin your life and the lives of your children? Especially when he ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> before h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m a way to stop hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> drinking and abuse if he really want<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to pay the price.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> There is an important exception to the foregoing. We realize some <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">alcoholics</span> are thoroughly bad-intentioned, that no amount of patience will make any difference. An alcoholic of this temperament may be quick to use this chapter as a club over your head. Don’t let <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m get away with it. If you are positive <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> one of this type you may feel you had better leave. Is it right to let <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m ruin your life and the lives of your children? Especially when <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> before <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m a way to stop <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> drinking and abuse if <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> really want to pay the price.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> drinking may be constant or it may be heavy only on certain occasions. Perhaps he spend<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> too much money for liquor. It may be slowing h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m up mentally and physically, but he do<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">es</span> not see it. Sometimes he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> a source of embarrassment to you and hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> friends. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> positive he can handle hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> liquor, that it does h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m no harm, that drinking is necessary in hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> business. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e would probably be insulted if he were called an alcoholic. This world is full of people like h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m. Some will moderate or stop altogether, and some will not. Of those who keep on, a good number will become true alcoholics after a while.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">the</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> drinking may be constant or it may be heavy only on certain occasions. Perhaps <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> spend too much money for liquor. It may be slowing <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m up mentally and physically, but <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> do not see it. Sometimes <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">re a</span> source of embarrassment to you and <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> friends. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> positive <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> can handle <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> liquor, that it does <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m no harm, that drinking is necessary in <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> business. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> would probably be insulted if <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> were called an alcoholic. This world is full of people like <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m. Some will moderate or stop altogether, and some will not. Of those who keep on, a good number will become true alcoholics after a while.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Two:* Your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> is showing lack of control, for he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> unable to stay on the water wagon even when he want<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e often get<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> entirely out of hand when drinking. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e admit<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> this is true, but <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">is</span> positive that he will do better. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> begun to try, with or without your cooperation, various means of moderating or staying dry. Maybe he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> beginning to lose hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> friends. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> business may suffer somewhat. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> worried at times, and <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">is</span> becoming aware that he cannot drink like other people. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e sometimes drink<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> in the morning and through the day also, to hold hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> nervousness in check. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> remorseful after serious drinking bouts and tells you he want<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to stop. But when he get<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> over the spree, he begin<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to think once more how he can drink moderately next time. We think this person is in danger. These are the earmarks of a real alcoholic. Perhaps he can still tend to business fairly well. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> by no means ruined everything. As we say among ourselves, _“<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e want<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to want to stop.”_</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Two:* Your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> is showing lack of control, for <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> unable to stay on the water wagon even when <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> want to. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> often get entirely out of hand when drinking. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> admit this is true, but <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">are</span> positive that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will do better. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> begun to try, with or without your cooperation, various means of moderating or staying dry. Maybe <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> beginning to lose <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> friends. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">The</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> <wbr>business may suffer somewhat. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> worried at times, and <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">are</span> becoming aware that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> cannot drink like other people. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> sometimes drink in the morning and through the day also, to hold <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> nervousness in check. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> remorseful after serious drinking bouts and tells you <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> want to stop. But when <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> get over the spree, <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> begin to think once more how <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> can drink moderately next time. We think this person is in danger. These are the earmarks of a real alcoholic. Perhaps <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> can still tend to business fairly well. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> by no means ruined everything. As we say among ourselves, _“<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> want to want to stop.”_</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Three:* This <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> has gone much further than <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> number two. Though once like number two</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Three:* This <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> has gone much further than <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> number two. Though once like number two</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">he became worse. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> friends have slipped away, hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> home is a near-wreck and he cannot hold a position. Maybe the doctor has been called in, and the weary round of sanitariums and hospitals has begun. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e admit<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s </span>he cannot drink like other people, but does not see why. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e cling<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to the notion that he will yet find a way to do so. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e may have come to the point where he desperately want<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> to stop but cannot. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> case presents additional questions which we shall try to answer for you. You can be quite hopeful of a situation like this.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"><span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> became worse. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">The</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> friends have slipped away, <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> home is a near-wreck and <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> cannot hold a position. Maybe the doctor has been called in, and the weary round of sanitariums and hospitals has begun. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> admit<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> cannot drink like other people, but does not see why. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> cling to the notion that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will yet find a way to do so. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> may have come to the point where <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> desperately want to stop but cannot. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">The</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> case presents additional questions which we shall try to answer for you. You can be quite hopeful of a situation like this.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Four:* You may have a <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> of whom you completely despair. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> been placed in one institution after another. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> violent, or appears definitely insane when drunk. Sometimes he drink<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> on the way home from the hospital. Perhaps he ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> had delirium tremens. Doctors may shake their heads and advise you to have h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m committed. Maybe you have already been obliged to put h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m away. This picture may not be as dark as it looks. Many of our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">hu</span>s<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">bands</span> were just as far gone. Yet they got well.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> *Four:* You may have a <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> of whom you completely despair. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> been placed in one institution after another. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> violent, or appears definitely insane when drunk. Sometimes <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> drink on the way home from the hospital. Perhaps <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ve</span> had delirium tremens. Doctors may shake their heads and advise you to have <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m committed. Maybe you have already been obliged to put <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m away. This picture may not be as dark as it looks. Many of our <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">partner</span>s were just as far gone. Yet they got well.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Let’s now go back to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> number one. Oddly enough, he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> often difficult to deal with. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e enjoy<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> drinking. It stirs hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> imagination. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> friends feel closer over a highball. Perhaps you enjoy drinking with <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">him</span> yourself when he do<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">es</span>n’t go too far. You have passed happy evenings together chatting and drinking before your fire. Perhaps you both like parties which would be dull without liquor. We have enjoyed such evenings ourselves; we had a good time. We know all about liquor as a social lubricant. Some, but not all of us, think it has its advantages when reasonably used.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Let’s now go back to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> number one. Oddly enough, <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> often difficult to deal with. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> enjoy drinking. It stirs <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> imagination. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">The</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span><wbr> friends feel closer over a highball. Perhaps you enjoy drinking with <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">your partner</span> yourself when <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> don’t go too far. You have passed happy evenings together chatting and drinking before your fire. Perhaps you both like parties which would be dull without liquor. We have enjoyed such evenings ourselves; we had a good time. We know all about liquor as a social lubricant. Some, but not all of us, think it has its advantages when reasonably used.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The first principle of success is that you should never be angry. Even though your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> becomes unbearable and you have to leave h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m temporarily, you should, if you can, go without rancor. Patience and good temper are most necessary.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The first principle of success is that you should never be angry. Even though your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> becomes unbearable and you have to leave <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m temporarily, you should, if you can, go without rancor. Patience and good temper are most necessary.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our next thought is that you should never tell h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m what he must do about hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> drinking. If he get<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> the idea that you are a nag or a killjoy, your chance of accomplishing anything useful may be zero. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e will use that as an excuse to drink more. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e will tell you he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> is</span> misunderstood. This may lead to lonely evenings for you. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e may seek someone else to console h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m—<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> </span>not always an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">other man</span>.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Our next thought is that you should never tell <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m what <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> must do about <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> drinking. If <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> get the idea that you are a nag or a killjoy, your chance of accomplishing anything useful may be zero. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will use that as an excuse to drink more. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will tell you <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y are</span> misunderstood. This may lead to lonely evenings for you. <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">Th</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> may seek someone else to console <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m—not always <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">someone who's just </span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5"> frie</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Be determined that your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>’s drinking is not going to spoil your relations with your children or your friends. They need your companionship and your help. It is possible to have a full and useful life, though your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> continues to drink. We know <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">w</span>o<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">m</span>e<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">n</span> who are unafraid, even happy under these conditions. Do not set your heart on reforming your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>. You may be unable to do so, no matter how hard you try.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Be determined that your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span>’s drinking is not going to spoil your relations with your children or your friends. They need your companionship and your help. It is possible to have a full and useful life, though your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> continues to drink. We know <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">pe</span>o<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">pl</span>e who are unafraid, even happy under these conditions. Do not set your heart on reforming your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span>. You may be unable to do so, no matter how hard you try.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> We know these suggestions are sometimes difficult to follow, but you will save many a heartbreak if you can succeed in observing them. Your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> may come to appreciate your reasonableness and patience. This may lay the groundwork for a friendly talk about hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> alcoholic problem. Try to have h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m bring up the subject h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>msel<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">f</span>. Be sure you are not critical during such a discussion. Attempt instead, to put yourself in hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> place. Let h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m see that you want to be helpful rather than critical.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> We know these suggestions are sometimes difficult to follow, but you will save many a heartbreak if you can succeed in observing them. Your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> may come to appreciate your reasonableness and patience. This may lay the groundwork for a friendly talk about <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> alcoholic problem. Try to have <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m bring up the subject <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>msel<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">ves</span>. Be sure you are not critical during such a discussion. Attempt instead, to put yourself in <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> place. Let <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m see that you want to be helpful rather than critical.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">read this book or at least the chapter on alcoholism. Tell h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m you have been worried, though perhaps needlessly. You think he ought to know the subject better, as everyone should have a clear understanding of the risk he take<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> if he drink<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> too much. Show h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m you have confidence in hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> power to stop or moderate. Say you do not want to be a wet blanket; that you only want h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m to take care of hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> health. Thus you may succeed in interesting h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m in alcoholism.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">read this book or at least the chapter on alcoholism. Tell <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m you have been worried, though perhaps needlessly. You think <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> ought to know the subject better, as everyone should have a clear understanding of the risk <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> take if <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> drink too much. Show <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m you have confidence in <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> power to stop or moderate. Say you do not want to be a wet blanket; that you only want <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m to take care of <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> health. Thus you may succeed in interesting <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m in alcoholism.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">H</span>e probably ha<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> several alcoholics among hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> own acquaintances. You might suggest that you both take an interest in them. Drinkers like to help other drinkers. Your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> may be willing to talk to one of them.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> If this kind of approach does not catch your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span>’s interest, it may be best to drop the subject, but after a friendly talk your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> will usually revive the topic h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>msel<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">f</span>. This may take patient waiting, but it will be worth it. Meanwhile you might try to help the <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">wif</span>e of another serious drinker. If you act upon these principles, your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> may stop or moderate.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Suppose, however, that your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> fits the description of number two. The same principles which apply to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">husb</span>an<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">d</span> number one should be practiced. But after hi<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">s</span> next binge, ask h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m if he would really like to get over drinking for good. Do not ask that he do it for you or anyone else. Just would he _like_ to?</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> Suppose, however, that your <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> fits the description of number two. The same principles which apply to <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">p</span>a<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">rt</span>n<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">er</span> number one should be practiced. But after <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>i<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">r</span> next binge, ask <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m if <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> would really like to get over drinking for good. Do not ask that <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> do it for you or anyone else. Just would <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> _like_ to?</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The chances are he would. Show h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m your copy of this book and tell h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m what you have found out about alcoholism. Show h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m that as alcoholics, the writers of the book understand. Tell h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m some of the interesting stories you have read. If you think he will be shy of a spiritual remedy, ask h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">i</span>m to look at the chapter on</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace"> The chances are <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> would. Show <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m your copy of this book and tell <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m what you have found out about alcoholism. Show <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m that as alcoholics, the writers of the book understand. Tell <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m some of the interesting stories you have read. If you think <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will be shy of a spiritual remedy, ask <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>h<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">e</span>m to look at the chapter on</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;width:1em;font-family:monospace;vertical-align:top;background:#dedede">108</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;background:#97d397;width:1em;font-family:monospace">111</td>
<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">alcoholism. Then perhaps he will be interested enough to continue.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;background:#97d397;width:1em;font-family:monospace">109</td>
<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;vertical-align:top;text-align:left;font-family:monospace">alcoholism. Then perhaps <span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">t</span>he<span style="width:1em;background:#a9d0f5">y</span> will be interested enough to continue.</td>
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<td style="padding-left:2px;padding-right:2px;width:1em;font-family:monospace;vertical-align:top;background:#dedede">112</td>