prematurely abort ProcSendEvent if a ClientMsg has been fordwarded #223

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Build on ubuntu:20.04 - gcc	8m 5s
Build on ubuntu:20.04 - clang	7m 57s
Build on ubuntu:22.04 - gcc	7m 33s
Build on ubuntu:22.04 - clang	8m 15s
Build on ubuntu:24.04 - gcc	8m 44s
Build on ubuntu:24.04 - clang	8m 46s
Build on debian:stable - gcc	8m 25s
Build on debian:stable - clang	8m 19s
Build on debian:sid - gcc	7m 49s
Build on debian:sid - clang	8m 39s
Build on quay.io/rockylinux/rockylinux:8 - gcc	7m 34s
Build on quay.io/rockylinux/rockylinux:8 - clang	9m 9s
Build on quay.io/centos/centos:stream9 - gcc	8m 25s
Build on quay.io/centos/centos:stream9 - clang	8m 55s
Build on fedora:latest - gcc	8m 19s
Build on fedora:latest - clang	8m 17s
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