Updating System.Memory.Data reference

[fabiocav]

Issue describing the changes in this PR

resolves #10575

Updating reference to System.Memory.Data. Even though this crosses major versions, this is a safe update and will address the unification issue introduced by extensions that recently updated dependencies outside of semver.

Pull request checklist

IMPORTANT: Currently, changes must be backported to the in-proc branch to be included in Core Tools and non-Flex deployments.

• Backporting to the in-proc branch is not required
  • Otherwise: Link to backporting PR: [in-proc] Updating System.Memory.Data reference #10611
• My changes do not require documentation changes
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