Add option to disable stage metrics and stage_id tags

[Kyle-Neale]

What does this PR do?

This adds an option to disable stage_id from being attached to spark.job metrics and adds an option to disable the collection of stage metrics as a whole.

Motivation

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.96%. Comparing base (3fa5466) to head (f6bb432).
Report is 3 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

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activemq	?
cassandra	?
hive	?
hivemq	?
ignite	?
jboss_wildfly	?
kafka	?
presto	?
solr	?
spark	93.37% <100.00%> (+0.45%)	⬆️

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