introduce support for alternative addresses for peer connections

[maxrantil]

This PR introduces a new configuration parameter, alt_addr, which allows specifying an alternative address for peer connections.

Key Features

1. Initial Connection: Upon connecting to a peer, if an alt_addr is specified, this address is communicated to the peer.
2. Reconnection: During reconnection attempts, the alt_addr is used to establish the connection.
3. Configuration Parameters: Added alt-addr, alt-bind-addr, and alt-announce-addr for managing alternative addresses.
4. Database Integration: Added fields to the database to store alternative addresses for peers.
5. New RPC Command: Implemented command for managing alternative addresses in combination with alt-bind-addr for specific peers.

[cdecker]

Thanks @maxrantil for the proposal. I read through the description, and I'm not sure I understand the rationale for this change. Is this intended as a way to say "hey, if we get disconnected, this is how you can reach me again", or is the intention something else?

Just thought I'd ask this before looking at the code itself, wanting to start with the right mental model.

[maxrantil]

Hi @cdecker , as you might know, this project is part of Summer of Bitcoin and this is the project description:

The lightning network has regimes of public and private data. Public channels and nodes are announced with gossip, while channel activity is private between peers. A nodes connection address is disseminated with the public node announcement message, which is well suited for two peers initiating a connection for the first time. Peers with an established channel or history, may prefer to connect via an alternate address for privacy, reliability, or latency concerns. This project will add a new message to communicate a private alternative connection address, and then use that address when reconnecting to a peer who has provided it.

I think this answers your question, right?

[cdecker]

Oh, cool, yeah I hadn't made the connection right away. Thanks for sharing the description, it's much clearer now ☺️