Use auto position strategy for grid toolbar dropdowns

[wnvko]

Two things in this PR:

• fix the way toggle directive shows its target. In open method we set now collapsed to false and call detect changes. In old versions of Angular this updates the related host bindings immediately. As a result we have the target element visible and can measure and position it correctly. In post Ivy versions host bindings are updated on next cycle and to have target element visible we need to wait. This is what the fix is for. More information about this change in Angular here.
• make the position strategy of grid toolbar dropdowns auto.

Closes #16410

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[wnvko]

@copilot fix all the failing tests

[Copilot]

@wnvko I've opened a new pull request, #16430, to work on those changes. Once the pull request is ready, I'll request review from you.