feat(kong): add metrics Service for ingress controller exposed metrics

[thameezb]

What this PR does / why we need it:

Correctly adds in ports to the KIC webhook service so that the servicemonitor can correctly match

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[pmalek]

Thanks for the contribution.

I believe this is a nice addition. I'd consider adding a separate Service which would only expose the metrics port.

LMKWYT