Add the mz-pgwire part of statement lifecycle

[ggevay]

Edit:
Closing, because this is unfortunately not enough in its current form, because we need these new events also for prepared statements. I'll start a discussion on how to do that.

Motivation

• This PR adds a known-desirable feature: Part of https://github.com/MaterializeInc/database-issues/issues/9140

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