Better cross-compilation between 2.13 and 3, AnyVal support

• support for AnyVal <=> primitive conversion
• support for Scala 3 enum <=> Scala 2 sealed hierarchy conversion (with exception of 2.13 JS, there is a bug there)
• support for Scal3 @BeanProperty<=> Scala 2 @BeanProperty conversion
• product derivation can be recursive with recursiveDerivation config without derivation implicit in scope
• path: Path in updateContext was made by-name param to avoid allocation cost for implementations which don't use it