[Feature] Support Cluster Snapshot Backup: deletion control (part4) (backport #54980)

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What I'm doing:

This is part 4 for Support Cluster Snapshot Backup
In this pr, we support deletion control to keep the files in BE/CN side needed by the
current cluster snapshot. The basic idea is following:

1. Introduce the deletion valid time stamp, which is the previous created time for automated
   cluster snapshot, called ValidDeletionTimeMs
2. Use ValidDeletionTimeMs for vacuum.
3. Use ValidDeletionTimeMs to filter for partition/table in recycleBin
4. Use ValidDeletionTimeMs to filter alter job

Fixes #53867
#53867

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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