Pass useDefineForClassFields tsconfig compiler option to SWC

[valentin-nemcev]

Defaults for this option may be different between tsc and SWC, and explicit override in ts-node is ignored.

This prevents drop-in replacement of ts-node --swc in place of ts-node for cases when the value of useDefineForClassFields is important

Here is an example of the problem this PR is attempting to fix:

tsconfig.json:

{
  "compilerOptions": {
    "target": "es2021",
    "useDefineForClassFields": false
  }
}

$ ts-node -pe 'new class { f?:any }'
{}

$ ts-node --swc -pe 'new class { f?:any }'
{ f: undefined } # but should be {}

[cspotcode]

Fixed via #2062