feat: support reading and writingStringView and BinaryView in parquet (part 1)

[alamb]

Which issue does this PR close?

First part of #5530

Rationale for this change

This is the first 3 commits from #5557 by @ariesdevil for initial support of reading StringViewArray and BinaryViewArray from parquet

The performance is non ideal (it copies string data several times) but it does include benchmarks and tests.

Thus I would like to merge this in and then continue iterating on the design in #5557 to keep the PRs smaller and more manageable

What changes are included in this PR?

1. Basic support for reading/writingStringViewArray and BinaryViewArray from parquet
2. Tests for same
3. Benchmarks

Are there any user-facing changes?

The arrow reader/writer can now read /write StringViewArray and BinaryViewArrays

[mapleFU]

Just a minor question: during writing parquet, arrow will serialize self-schema. Would BinaryView/StringView keep it's schema, or using Binary/String here?

[ariesdevil]

Thanks for splitting this PR into small parts, looks good to me.

[ariesdevil]

Just a minor question: during writing parquet, arrow will serialize self-schema. Would BinaryView/StringView keep it's schema, or using Binary/String here?

View type will keep its schema

[alamb]

Merging this one in as it doesn't expose any public PRs and has been reviewed as a prior PR #5557 (review)

Let's continue the conversation on #5557

[alamb]

Thanks again @ariesdevil and @mapleFU