Improve performance by specializing mutable array data for each data type

[rluvaton]

Note

This is still work in progress, opening as draft to see if it's even wanted

Which issue does this PR close?

none

Rationale for this change

I think we can get better performance by specializing mutable array data for each data type and avoiding the dyn dispatch

What changes are included in this PR?

Creating mutable array data for each data type

Are there any user-facing changes?

yes

[tustvold]

I think if we want to go down this path it would be better to implement this at the array level in arrow-select, with a view to eventually removing MutableArrayData #2832 and better supporting other use-cases such as #6692.

I hope to find some time over the next few weeks to sketch out some designs

[rluvaton]

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