[FLINK-34123][FLINK-35068][FLINK-36903] Introduce built-in serialization support for common collection types

[X-czh]

What is the purpose of the change

Introduce built-in serialization support for common collection types: maps, lists, and sets.

Brief change log

The first three commits are cherry-picked from previously reverted commits (as they break state compatibility and has to be merged at Flink 2.0).

The fourth commit adds a new option to control whether to use built-in serialization support for common collection types.

Verifying this change

This change added tests on serializing collection types with the switch option on and off.

Does this pull request potentially affect one of the following parts:

• Dependencies (does it add or upgrade a dependency): (yes / no)
• The public API, i.e., is any changed class annotated with @Public(Evolving): (yes / no)
• The serializers: (yes / no / don't know)
• The runtime per-record code paths (performance sensitive): (yes / no / don't know)
• Anything that affects deployment or recovery: JobManager (and its components), Checkpointing, Kubernetes/Yarn, ZooKeeper: (yes / no / don't know)
• The S3 file system connector: (yes / no / don't know)

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? (yes / no)
• If yes, how is the feature documented? (not applicable / docs / JavaDocs / not documented)

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• 1a6d993 Azure: SUCCESS

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[X-czh]

@reswqa Could you help take a review?