[Feat][C++] Support building GraphAr with system installed arrow

[acezen]

Proposed changes

This change enable the feature that GraphAr can build with the system installed arrow, linking them as static library.

• Add a cmake option BUILD_ARROW_FROM_SOURCE to configure wether to build arrow from source (default OFF)

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[lixueclaire]

LGTM~ Thanks for this change!