Update PUDL to work with pandas 2.2

[zaneselvans]

Overview

• Bump pandas version to 2.2
• Bump grpcio version to 1.59.3 (can't use 1.60 b/c arrow doesn't work with it)
• Bump ferc-xbrl-extractor to 1.3.2 which allows use of pandas 2.2
• Switch to faster calamine Rust Excel parser
• Fix some tests that relied on old incorrect merge sort ordering in pandas.

Failing Tests

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1. test/unit/helpers_test.py::test_annual_attribute_merge
2. test/unit/analysis/plant_parts_eia_test.py::test_one_to_many
3. test/unit/transform/ferc1_test.py::test_calculate_values_from_components
4. test/unit/transform/glue_test.py::test_epacamd_eia_subplant_ids
5. ???

Before Merging

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1. Make sure all unit tests pass
2. Make sure all integration tests pass
3. Run the full ETL
4. Run integration tests against full DB
5. Run data validation tests
6. Update the release notes: reference the PR and related issues.
7. Review the PR yourself and call out any questions or issues you have