fix(ci): further consolidate NODE_OPTIONS

[david-leifker]

Prevent having to track down and modify memory settings in multiple places for NODE_OPTIONS

@chakru-r when trying to enable coverage, I think we're missing tests? Disabling for now.

$ NODE_OPTIONS='--max-old-space-size=5120 --openssl-legacy-provider' vitest run --coverage run
vs  node_modules/monaco-editor/min-maps/vs/

 RUN  v0.34.6 /Users/dleifker/Code/datahub/datahub-web-react
      Coverage enabled with v8

 % Coverage report from v8
----------|---------|----------|---------|---------|-------------------
File      | % Stmts | % Branch | % Funcs | % Lines | Uncovered Line #s 
----------|---------|----------|---------|---------|-------------------
All files |       0 |        0 |       0 |       0 |                   
----------|---------|----------|---------|---------|-------------------
filter:  run
include: **/*.{test,spec}.?(c|m)[jt]s?(x)
exclude:  **/node_modules/**, **/dist/**, **/cypress/**, **/.{idea,git,cache,output,temp}/**, **/{karma,rollup,webpack,vite,vitest,jest,ava,babel,nyc,cypress,tsup,build}.config.*
watch exclude:  **/node_modules/**, **/dist/**

No test files found, exiting with code 1
error Command failed with exit code 1.
info Visit https://yarnpkg.com/en/docs/cli/run for documentation about this command.
error Command failed with exit code 1.
info Visit https://yarnpkg.com/en/docs/cli/run for documentation about this command.
[Incubating] Problems report is available at: file:///Users/dleifker/Code/datahub/build/reports/problems/problems-report.html

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