build(cmake): Clean up various issues

[assignUser]

I have pulled these changes from #10732 as they are not specifically part of the shared build.

• Add [<dependency name>] as an indicator that a dependency is running CMake. This makes it much easier to parse the log and track issues:

-- [simdjson] Using BUNDLED simdjson
-- Setting folly source to BUNDLED
-- [folly] Building Folly from source
-- [folly] Using Boost - Bundled

• use targets instead of variables for Folly::follybenchmark and glog::glog
• remove explicit linking of std::fs as this is no longer necessary for gcc >= 9 (our minimum is 11)
• unify generation and linking of dwrf protobuf files
• don't set C++ std for dependencies

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[assignUser]

The test is failing on main

[assignUser]

I have moved the wrapped proto files into velox_dwrf_common as they are never used standalone, so there is no reason to make a standalone library.

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@majetideepak cc

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@kgpai merged this pull request in 24b41e5.

[majetideepak]

Lazy +1