[v9]: bump drift min version and use QueryInterceptor instead of QueryExecutor

[buenaflor]

📜 Description

💡 Motivation and Context

Use better api for instrumenting drift operations

Part of #2165

💚 How did you test it?

📝 Checklist

• I reviewed submitted code
• I added tests to verify changes
• No new PII added or SDK only sends newly added PII if sendDefaultPii is enabled
• I updated the docs if needed
• All tests passing
• No breaking changes

🔮 Next steps

Deprecate it in the main branch

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 92.72727% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 88.38%. Comparing base (ea071ab) to head (8b59210).
Report is 2 commits behind head on v9.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
dart/lib/src/constants.dart	0.00%	4 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   88.24%   88.38%   +0.14%     
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  Files         263      263              
  Lines        8918     8837      -81     
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- Hits         7870     7811      -59     
+ Misses       1048     1026      -22     

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[buenaflor]

tbd in other PR, add other db systems here

[buenaflor]

tbd in other PR, remove SpanDataConvention and put the constants here

[buenaflor]

updated impl to support nested transactions