Use zmq-anyio #2784

Job	Run time
link_check	3m 38s
Make SDist	17s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 50s
check_release	1m 33s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	4m 49s
test_docs	49s
Test Lint	55s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	1m 55s
Test Minimum Versions	28s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	4m 11s
Test Prereleases	2m 39s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 51s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	3m 58s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 52s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	2m 44s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	4m 12s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	4m 49s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	4m 50s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	1m 46s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	3m 59s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	3m 3s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 43s
coverage	1s
tests_check	3s
	1h 7m 55s

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