Enable set probe

[bobz965]

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What type of this PR

• Features

support set probe

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #(issue-number)

WHAT

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Update script arguments for OVN and OVS containers in YAML and Helm files. This improves the consistency and configurability of the OVN deployment options.

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Oh we are the OVN crew, and we have a job to do
We need to tune the cluster and the OVS too
So we pass the args along, from the Helm to the script
Heave away, me hearties, heave away with start-db.sh and start-ovs.sh

HOW

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• Pass election timer and probe interval arguments to start-db.sh script for OVN database cluster configuration (link, link, link)
• Pass ovsdb-server memory limit and compact interval arguments to start-ovs.sh script for OVS database performance tuning (link, link)