proxy: v2.209.0 (#11361)

This commit changes the `linkerd-meshtls-rustls` crate to use the
upstream `rustls-webpki` crate, maintained by Rustls, rather than our
fork of `briansmith/webpki` from GitHub. Since `rustls-webpki` includes
the change which was the initial motivation for the `linkerd/webpki`
fork (rustls/webpki#42), we can now depend on upstream.

Currently, we must take a Git dependency on `rustls-webpki`, since a
release including a fix for an issue (rustls/webpki#167) which prevents
`rustls-webpki` from parsing our test certificates has not yet been
published. Once v0.101.5 of `rustls-webpki` is published (PR see
rustls/webpki#170), we can remove the Git dep. For now, I've updated
`cargo-deny` to allow the Git dependency.

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* use `rustls-webpki` instead of `linkerd/webpki` (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2465)

Signed-off-by: Eliza Weisman <[email protected]>

.proxy-version

@@ -1 +1 @@
-v2.208.0
+v2.209.0