MONGOID-5831 Remove usage of Rails private API (#5908) #3855

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	12m 50s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	13m 11s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	13m 1s
ruby-3.1 driver-master mongodb-6.0 replica_set	13m 14s
ruby-3.0 driver-stable mongodb-6.0 replica_set	12m 25s
ruby-3.3 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	10m 46s
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	11m 0s
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	10m 54s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	11m 10s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	11m 6s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	11m 3s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	10m 52s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	10m 45s
jruby-9.3 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	18m 54s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	13m 6s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.4 replica_set	12m 55s
	3h 17m 12s

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