test: migrate tests to use node:test module for better test structure for C Ares

[mertcanaltin]

Updated c-ares tests to use the node:test module for improved structure and maintainability.

this is part of a long pull request: #56024

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.96%. Comparing base (9029aec) to head (226d249).
Report is 179 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   87.95%   87.96%           
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  Files         656      656           
  Lines      188372   188372           
  Branches    35979    35982    +3     
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+ Hits       165687   165702   +15     
+ Misses      15851    15834   -17     
- Partials     6834     6836    +2     

see 25 files with indirect coverage changes

[mertcanaltin]

#54796, #56027, #55716
I added a blocker tag because it is linked

[lpinca]

I'm blocking this because there is an approval now and as discussed in other places this is not an improvement in my opinion. I will remove the block once TSC officially decides that a mass refactor to node:test is good for the project.