Add JOSS paper to README.md

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[mkstoyanov]

There's a philosophical question here, since AWS + cuda is so slow, do we wait or just merge. This is a change for the readme only.

[quantumsteve]

There's a philosophical question here, since AWS + cuda is so slow, do we wait or just merge. This is a change for the readme only.