Fix tarfile.open overloads

[srittau]

• Allow compresslevel argument for modes w|gz and w|bz2.
• Remove preset argument from modes where it's not allowed.

Closes: #13440

[github-actions]

Diff from mypy_primer, showing the effect of this PR on open source code:

vision (https://github.com/pytorch/vision)
- torchvision/datasets/utils.py:215: note:     def open(name: str | bytes | PathLike[str] | PathLike[bytes] | Buffer | None = ..., *, mode: Literal['r|*', 'r|', 'r|gz', 'r|bz2', 'r|xz'], fileobj: IO[bytes] | None = ..., bufsize: int = ..., format: int | None = ..., tarinfo: type[TarInfo] | None = ..., dereference: bool | None = ..., ignore_zeros: bool | None = ..., encoding: str | None = ..., errors: str = ..., pax_headers: Mapping[str, str] | None = ..., debug: int | None = ..., errorlevel: int | None = ..., preset: int | None = ...) -> TarFile
+ torchvision/datasets/utils.py:215: note:     def open(name: str | bytes | PathLike[str] | PathLike[bytes] | Buffer | None = ..., *, mode: Literal['r|*', 'r|', 'r|gz', 'r|bz2', 'r|xz'], fileobj: IO[bytes] | None = ..., bufsize: int = ..., format: int | None = ..., tarinfo: type[TarInfo] | None = ..., dereference: bool | None = ..., ignore_zeros: bool | None = ..., encoding: str | None = ..., errors: str = ..., pax_headers: Mapping[str, str] | None = ..., debug: int | None = ..., errorlevel: int | None = ...) -> TarFile
- torchvision/datasets/utils.py:215: note:     def open(name: str | bytes | PathLike[str] | PathLike[bytes] | Buffer | None = ..., *, mode: Literal['w|', 'w|gz', 'w|bz2', 'w|xz'], fileobj: IO[bytes] | None = ..., bufsize: int = ..., format: int | None = ..., tarinfo: type[TarInfo] | None = ..., dereference: bool | None = ..., ignore_zeros: bool | None = ..., encoding: str | None = ..., errors: str = ..., pax_headers: Mapping[str, str] | None = ..., debug: int | None = ..., errorlevel: int | None = ..., preset: int | None = ...) -> TarFile
+ torchvision/datasets/utils.py:215: note:     def open(name: str | bytes | PathLike[str] | PathLike[bytes] | Buffer | None = ..., *, mode: Literal['w|', 'w|xz'], fileobj: IO[bytes] | None = ..., bufsize: int = ..., format: int | None = ..., tarinfo: type[TarInfo] | None = ..., dereference: bool | None = ..., ignore_zeros: bool | None = ..., encoding: str | None = ..., errors: str = ..., pax_headers: Mapping[str, str] | None = ..., debug: int | None = ..., errorlevel: int | None = ...) -> TarFile
+ torchvision/datasets/utils.py:215: note:     def open(name: str | bytes | PathLike[str] | PathLike[bytes] | Buffer | None = ..., *, mode: Literal['w|gz', 'w|bz2'], fileobj: IO[bytes] | None = ..., bufsize: int = ..., format: int | None = ..., tarinfo: type[TarInfo] | None = ..., dereference: bool | None = ..., ignore_zeros: bool | None = ..., encoding: str | None = ..., errors: str = ..., pax_headers: Mapping[str, str] | None = ..., debug: int | None = ..., errorlevel: int | None = ..., compresslevel: int = ...) -> TarFile