feat(sink): add clickhouse delete column for CollapsingMergeTree

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What's changed and what's your intention?

#17283 add delete column. To ensure consistency in the syntax of upsert, we add it for CollapsingMergeTree.
and add upsert e2e test

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It should be recommended in the document that users set delete.columns when using CollapsingMergeTree,
VersionedCollapsingMergeTree and upsert

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