cibuildwheel: move configuration to pyproject.toml #1326

Job	Run time
Build source distribution	11s
Build wheels ubuntu-24.04 (x86_64)	26m 5s
Build wheels ubuntu-24.04 (PyPy)	1m 19s
Build wheels windows-2022 (win64)	15m 24s
Build extra arch aarch64 wheels	3h 29m 19s
Build wheels windows-latest (PyPy)	3m 59s
Build wheels macos-14 (all)	6m 47s
Build wheels macos-13 (all)	16m 11s
Build wheels macos-latest (PyPy)	50s
upload_pypi	0s
	4h 40m 5s

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