Fix handshake and dial timeout

[yzang2019]

Describe your changes and provide context

Sometimes a peer could end up having multiple different IP addresses in the network, some IP are stale, this will cause dial always fail and got stuck. Currently the dial and handshake timeout is not passed in correctly, leading to the fact that the timeout is infinite. So we should enable dial timeout to fix this issue.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 73.91304% with 6 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 58.07%. Comparing base (29b1ac3) to head (4b1e977).
Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/blocksync/pool.go	66.66%	6 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   58.03%   58.07%   +0.03%     
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  Files         249      249              
  Lines       34510    34515       +5     
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+ Hits        20029    20043      +14     
- Misses      12880    12881       +1     
+ Partials     1601     1591      -10     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
internal/p2p/peermanager.go	79.33% <100.00%> (+0.02%)	⬆️
node/node.go	58.60% <100.00%> (+0.21%)	⬆️
internal/blocksync/pool.go	79.10% <66.66%> (+2.18%)	⬆️

... and 17 files with indirect coverage changes