Fix race condition in the AbstractMessageListenerContainer lifecycle

The `stop()` and `childStopped()` in the `ConcurrentMessageListenerContainer` use the same `lifecycleLock`,
however the last one is called from the thread of listener consumer in the child application context.

* Fix `AbstractMessageListenerContainer.stop(wait)` logic to release the `lifecycleLock`
before going to the `latch.await()`.
This still blocks the `stop()` call, but allows the other lifecycle conditions to be fulfilled,
even from different threads

spring-kafka/src/main/java/org/springframework/kafka/listener/AbstractMessageListenerContainer.java

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@
  */
 public abstract class AbstractMessageListenerContainer<K, V>
 		implements GenericMessageListenerContainer<K, V>, BeanNameAware, ApplicationEventPublisherAware,
-			ApplicationContextAware {
+		ApplicationContextAware {
 
 	/**
 	 * The default {@link org.springframework.context.SmartLifecycle} phase for listener
@@ -143,7 +143,6 @@ public abstract class AbstractMessageListenerContainer<K, V>
 	@Nullable
 	private KafkaAdmin kafkaAdmin;
 
-
 	/**
 	 * Construct an instance with the provided factory and properties.
 	 * @param consumerFactory the factory.
@@ -609,28 +608,36 @@ public final void stop() {
 	 * @since 2.3.8
 	 */
 	public final void stop(boolean wait) {
-		this.lifecycleLock.lock();
-		try {
-			if (isRunning()) {
-				if (wait) {
-					final CountDownLatch latch = new CountDownLatch(1);
+		if (isRunning()) {
+			if (wait) {
+				final CountDownLatch latch = new CountDownLatch(1);
+				this.lifecycleLock.lock();
+				try {
+
 					doStop(latch::countDown);
-					try {
-						latch.await(this.containerProperties.getShutdownTimeout(), TimeUnit.MILLISECONDS); // NOSONAR
-						publishContainerStoppedEvent();
-					}
-					catch (@SuppressWarnings("unused") InterruptedException e) {
-						Thread.currentThread().interrupt();
-					}
 				}
-				else {
+				finally {
+					this.lifecycleLock.unlock();
+				}
+				try {
+					latch.await(this.containerProperties.getShutdownTimeout(), TimeUnit.MILLISECONDS); // NOSONAR
+					publishContainerStoppedEvent();
+				}
+				catch (@SuppressWarnings("unused") InterruptedException e) {
+					Thread.currentThread().interrupt();
+				}
+			}
+			else {
+				this.lifecycleLock.lock();
+				try {
 					doStop(this::publishContainerStoppedEvent);
 				}
+				finally {
+					this.lifecycleLock.unlock();
+				}
+
 			}
 		}
-		finally {
-			this.lifecycleLock.unlock();
-		}
 	}
 
 	@Override
@@ -706,7 +713,7 @@ public void onPartitionsAssigned(Collection<TopicPartition> partitions) {
 			@Override
 			public void onPartitionsLost(Collection<TopicPartition> partitions) {
 				AbstractMessageListenerContainer.this.logger.info(() ->
-				getGroupId() + ": partitions lost: " + partitions);
+						getGroupId() + ": partitions lost: " + partitions);
 			}
 
 		};