Make SYCL backend detection more portable #10942

Job	Run time
clang-format	14s
documentation	21s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	12m 19s
codespell	12s
FPGA_EMU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	12m 21s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,macos-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	4m 20s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	12m 12s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icx-cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	12m 7s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	9m 56s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	12m 5s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	5m 58s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icx,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	11m 53s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 47s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 43s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 27s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 25s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 10s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 44s
HOST,bknd=serial,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 50s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	12m 4s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	12m 21s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	12m 1s
	3h 15m 30s

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