Improve handling of eventual consistency issues

[peintnermax]

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Describe your problem

When setting resources and immediately checking on them afterwards (ex. password) we run into eventual consistency issues as we can't directly request a session.

Describe your ideal solution

At the moment we are waiting for a constant amount of ms before we continue to request information. We could improve this by doing requests on a certain resources to check if the availability changed before we continue. (ex. listAuthenticationMethods - for password check after password set)

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Environment

ZITADEL Cloud

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[hifabienne]

@peintnermax can you estimate this issue?